Wednesday, July 24, 2013

I didn't think I was tone deaf, until I started learning Thai!



Hello outside world!

This week wasn't necessarily as exciting as last week, but I'll try to make this as interesting as possible!
Wednesday night, after P-day was over, we got some sad news:  Brother Phan (our teacher that just got married) was let go from his job due to some issues as well as some misunderstandings.  So, he is no longer our teacher, and we no longer have Sam as our investigator.  We were really heartbroken, especially since we saw him last we felt like we had let him down (he holds really high expectations of us as missionaries, and we didn't always live up to his expectations.  He pushed us to our capacities, but he ALWAYS expressed his belief that we could do great things, and he always bore his testimony about missionary work after he finished telling us how we could improve.  We will miss him so much, and it is hard not to be bitter about the circumstances surrounding the incident, but we have hope that Heavenly Father has great things in store for him and his new wife. 
Since we also lost Sam (our investigator), we got our first dose of what it feels like to lose an investigator.  It stinks.  A LOT.  We had just started teaching him again, and we LOVED IT.  He was such a good investigator, because he kept his commitments, was receptive, and had questions and concerns.  We felt like he was a real person!  Brother Phan used his own conversion story as a foundation for his investigator, so it was like it was his younger self learning things all over again!  Needless to say, we will miss both sides of Brother Phan very much, and I am really not looking forward to losing actual investigators in Thailand.

We got a new teacher, Brother Thrap this week since Brother Phan will be teaching us no longer.  Brother Thrap has taught us before, but we now have him as a permanent teacher!  Which means that we also have another investigator to start with!  We taught Phii Dxg for the first time yesterday morning and we were excited to teach him, especially since our Elders had been teaching him already from the times he had been our teacher before.  He is an awesome and super prepared investigator.  He has an 8 year old daughter named Rainbow and she doesn't speak (we think she might have a disability).  Phii Dxg is really searching for happiness in his and his daughter's lives and he wants to know about God's plan for him.  SCORE.  That's exactly the message we have to offer him. :)

On Monday, we were supposed to teach Phii Joe at 1, but he "sent us a message"  AKA wrote on the board that he didn't have time today and that we needed to reschedule.  We were really confused.  Then Brother Olsen asks us what we would do if our appointment fell through in the mission field.  We guessed that we would go tracting...so that's what we got to do.  We went to a door (that Brother Olsen hinted we try) and stood outside as we tried to figure out how to go about doing it.  So we said a prayer, gathered our courage and knocked on the door.  We introduced ourselves, asked him what his name was, and then asked if he would like to learn about Jesus Christ.  He said he already had a church, then as we stood there looking confused and terrified trying to figure out what to say next, he said "Chog Dii" and closed the door.  But this wasn't the end to our tracting.  We had to keep knocking! So we did it again.  This time a "different" person answered the door, and we started talking about English class, and he expressed a desire to learn.  We said that we could teach him English (but we have to go back tonight and make sure it is clear that we teach English at the church building not at his home.  Brother Olsen then talked to us about our experience thus far, gave us a few pointers, then sent us out again.  The third time went so much better.  We made a connection, and talked about how he could be with his family forever.  He expressed interest, but he looked a little confused, but we have an appointment with him tomorrow evening to teach him more about the plan of salvation!  Thus, we have another new investigator, Phii Tik.  YAY!  So this week has been good for investigators, especially since we have 2 new and 1 old.  Sister Downs and I are really excited to find out more about them and to implement all the skills, techniques, and fundamentals that we have learned since teaching our previous investigators.  We really are going to try to teach according to their needs and strive to better understand and get to know them so we can be better missionaries and better help them to understand how it all applies to them.

Random experience from this week:  Apparently I remind several people of native Thais.  Which could be a problem.  First there was Cat telling me I remind her of her Sister, and then there was another teacher, Brother Shipley, telling me I remind him of an investigator he taught on his mission when serving in Bangkok.  She was baptized, so that's good right?  I'm just terrified that when I get to Thailand people are going to think I'm a native and just start talking to me super fast and expect me to understand...  I'm sure it will definitely help me to learn faster because I'd be forced to speak it, but it is still scary because I know I won't understand them, and they for sure won't understand me!  Haha :)

Speaking of the language, apparently your first area determines how you speak Thai for the rest of your life.  FOR-EH-VUR.  Sooo let's just hope that I get sent to Bangkok first, that way everyone I know that already speaks Thai will be able to understand me. :)  But I know that wherever I go will be exactly where the Lord needs me! 
The language is coming slowly it seems, but it is probably because we aren't picking up at the same rate that we were before.  It's probably just because we were learning so much in the beginning and now a lot of our language study is attempting to perfect tones or reading, or just things we already know the basics of.  I'm sure we are learning so much and don't even realize it!  I think my favorite thing about learning Thai is that it no longer sounds foreign to me.  It is easy to think in it and speak in Thai-glish, and I love that certain Thai words come to mind before their English counterparts do.  It's so amazing that I am speaking, conversing, and teaching in Thai with relative ease!  That doesn't mean that it is easy by any means, but it does mean that I am learning and that the Lord is definitely on my side strengthening me, even when it comes to the language.  However, I have such a hard time with tones.  I think maybe I just need to go back and review all the tones for the words I already know...so basically relearn them!  But it will be a blessing, especially when people can understand me!  It is better for someone to know you are asking them to come than for them to think you are calling them a dog...or a horse. (All three words are Maa with different tones!)

We also found out that before we leave we get to clean the temple!  I don't think I mentioned this before, but the temple has been closed for about a month now for it's deep cleaning and it isn't scheduled to open again until a day or two after we leave.  We were really bummed!  We had gone only twice since we had been here, and one of those times I was sick.  Sooo we were really excited to find out that we had been assigned a time to clean it, especially since we will not be able to go to an LDS Temple the entire time we are in Thailand (the closest ones are in the Philippines and Hong Kong).

I'm running out of time, but I want to share a few thoughts and quotes I gathered this week, so enjoy!
- "If you want to be a real rescuer, you must be willing to make real sacrifices"
- "Never underestimate the power of being a good example"
- We will be accountable for every word we say and each consequence that comes out of it.  Likewise, if we build someone up, we will see the positive impact and also receive blessings. 
- "We are not born winners or losers, we are born choosers"
- "It is the little things you do, think, or say that will ultimately affect your heart and define who you are"
- "If you already know what you want in the end, it will make it easier for you to help others see what will ultimately bring them happiness"
- "Where there is trying, there is victory"

I am amazed at the changes I have seen in myself and in others around me.  A mission is the perfect environment for self-discovery, self-evaluation, and bettering ones self. Hopefully my emails reflect even a small measure of the miracles of missionary work and serving our Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ who give us everything.  I know that without them, none of what has happened would even be slightly possible.  I know this church is true and that the message is one of hope, and it has come directly from God himself.  The Heavens have opened and truth has been restored once more!  How glad I am to be able to share this with the people of Thailand, because I know that God knows them and loves them just as he knows and loves me and even all of you. 

You're awesome, I love you, and don't forget to write! :)
Love,
Sister Norrell

P.S.  This is a picture from when I saw Sister Foote in the cafeteria last week and she actually had her camera with her!


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